Saturday, December 31, 2011
2011 Annual Report
Friday, December 23, 2011
a thousand years
Wednesday, December 07, 2011
begging vs forgiveness.
I remember an incident that happened maybe 5 years ago? I probably blogged about it as well. One of my closest friends said something horrible to me. And the worst part was that he didn't even know the damage he had inflicted. I was destroyed completely and even teared in front of the monitor screen. For that few days, I felt terrible. I never imagined to be hurt so badly by a friend and especially a close friend. I was distraught and became cold towards everyone. But then, he realised how damaging his words were and apologized to me. He was remorseful. Without hesitation, I accepted his apology and we remained as close buddies, if not, even closer.
This may be a story similar to a fairy tale, with a fairy tale ending, but it has stuck with me all these years. Not for its happy ending, but for its portrayal of true friendship.
As human beings, we all make mistakes. It's okay to make mistakes, but more importantly to own up and learn from them. It is then to the mercy of others whether forgiveness is granted.
I have never been in a position whereby forgiveness has to be rethought. It may be tough when perhaps someone took away a loved one's life, or even breaking something as simple as a promise. It may be tough, but I don't believe it's not worth considering forgiveness at all, or even declaring a death sentence without even reviewing the story.
This may be way too far fetched from the problem I'm facing. Because I have no idea how a simple wrong turn could cause such a gigantic issue. Yes, it could be a matter of basic courtesy, or even respect. But as friends, as supposed close friends, there ain't no room for error? There ain't no room for forgiveness? There ain't no room for listening? There ain't no room for returning the courtesy and respect that was the root cause of the problem?
I'm sorry, but I'm disappointed.
That's how I'm feeling and I ain't hiding it, no more, because i'm way too affected by it.
Tuesday, December 06, 2011
oscar. romeo. delta. over.
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
what's wrong with the world, mama?
Sunday, November 27, 2011
so, whatcha wanna be?
Thursday, November 24, 2011
fuel vs luxury
Monday, November 21, 2011
taiwan
I miss Taiwan!! The smell of a hotel and the need for a different culture. The feeling of living smack right in the heart of a major shopping district.
Ok I shall confess. I have been too lazy to blog. But here I am finally, typing something. It isn't just something, it's the somewhat secret 10 day trip to Taiwan. Everyone was saying I just disappeared quietly and reappeared suddenly. I take that as a compliment.
Apparently the photo stats stand at 3000 ++ for the entire trip with an average file size of 6MB each thanks to my friend's borrowed Canon DSLR just for the trip. Alright let's start the long journey of mostly words and the few accompanying photos.
Anyway we managed to get a bus ticket to Taipei. It's more like an inter city coach where you stuff your luggage in the bottom compartment of the bus after tagging. Gotta admit I was impressed by their system as I didn't expect for a not exactly glamorous bus to actually account for luggages. But kinda pitied the driver as he had to come down at every stop and ensure people don't take the wrong bag.
Day 2 started off with us having a quick breakfast at one of the small shops selling noodles and rice. The speciality seemed to be the fish balls which had meat wrapped by a big fish ball. After that, we travelled to Long Shan Temple for some blessings.
We went back to the hotel for a short rest before touring travelling to Shi Da Night Market.
DAY 3 - 18 Sep 11 Sun
Had snacks for dinner and adjourned to Taipei 101, the observatory tower and also the tallest building in Taipei. Yea if you've been to any similar tower, it's the same. And we weren't too smart to go at night. It was almost pitch black. The theme of the tower is the damper system which has this gigantic spherical structure at the centre of the building for stabilization since it's the tallest building and also tw is prone to earthquakes. Don't quote me on this, I was focusing on taking photos of the Damper Babies, their mascots. Hahaha.
DAY 4 - 19 Sep 11 Mon
Dan Shui is this quiet place at the end of the MRT line. Pleasant place to just stroll through the streets where they sell food and mostly bags or toys. The main attraction of Dan Shui is the Fisherman's Wharf aka Yu Ren Ma Tou where there's this iconic bridge that lovers always frequent.
DAY 5 - 20 Sep 11 Tue
Took the train back to the Zhong Xiao area where the big departmental stores are for dinner. Perhaps it's under the influence of the Japanese departmental stores, even their food courts don't look like food courts.
DAY 6 - 21 Sep 11 Wed
Alas, we got kicked out of Xi Men Ding and moved to Jian Tan for the remainder of the trip. Sis had a room at Jian Tan Youth Activity Centre which is something like a hostel yet hotel standard.
Couldn't check in and we decided not to waste time and visited Di Hua Street where it is supposed to be overflowing with dried goods. Went there and bought 80% of NON-dried goods and came back. Oh and this is the part where i have to exclaim i love the Ji Dan Gao. I think it was the third time i bought a packet to munch on at Di Hua.
Trained back to check in before walking to Shih Lin Night Market for a sumptuous snacks dinner!
The famous chicken cutlet, humongous taiwan sausages, pau, squid etc. The chicken cutlet queue was insanely long. But i queued anyhow. I wouldnt say the cutlet's out of this world, it's just a very big piece of chicken cutlet and the drawback is that there's bones in it.
I can draw some similarities between some newer Kbox outlets in Singapore compared to Taiwan's PartyWorld. But the disparity is still obvious. The service was top drawer, the facilities new and clean. Only original songs were in the selection list, meaning no pirated, no concerts only original MTVs. And it was only then that i realised i haven't been listening to new Chinese songs. It's a totally different chart list over there. Something special about their k is that instead of forcing you to pay some somewhat rights and cover charge, they make you pay (if i remember correctly) about S$30 to ensure you order anything worth that value in the menu. You have to pay more if you order more, but for that money, some real good food can be consumed. We had herbal chicken, fried chicken wings and wedges while singing at the same time. It's like a five star karaoke experience.
It was time for some mall shopping and we visited this area which was like a Japanese mall district. There were 3 or 4 major Japanese shopping malls within close proximity of each other. Eg. Takashimaya and Shin something something, Xin Guang Shan Yue in Chinese.
Had lunch at a small restaurant in Xin Guang Shan Yue, and almost an immediate tea session at another tea restaurant.
Shopped at Taka for awhile but the prices weren't appealing. Bought some snacks and drinks from the supermarket and cabbed back to the hotel.
Sis had something on at night and we went to Shih Lin again for another round of shopping. We practically combed the entire night market.
Ji Dan Gao!!!! My new found favourite Taiwan snack.
Some promotion event for another drama serial.
Day 9 - 24 Sep 11 Sat
Last day!! Honestly, i wasn't that sad to leave. Because we kinda ran out of places to go. We actually had time to sit in the hotel to watch tv! But their channels are crazy. Almost 100 channels and it's 50% variety shows and 25% news throughout the day. It's a haven for people who are in love with their shows. I observed they are really very good at talking. They can talk non-stop for one topic and make a big fuss out of small issues. Their news can report things like someone's toilet bowl very dirty, someone fall off a motorbike, someone had a public argument etc etc. However, their shows are really quite entertaining. Those showing here are really just a handful of straws in a haystack.
The entrance of Jian Tan Youth Activity Centre aka our hotel, with the Grand Palace Hotel in the backdrop.
Anyways, on the final day, we went to this promising place called the National Palace Museum. It's like a must go for tourists where it showcases the artifacts that were shipped from China for safekeeping when China went to war. Somehow down the line, Taiwan decided not to return the artifacts and bought most of it and now displayed.
No cameras allowed and this was the only shot outside. I was bored to tears staring at random pieces of antique. That's one place that's a no no for me ever again.
Left the museum in glee in search for lunch at Shih Lin Station. And I finally found the renowned Yong He Dou Jiang Da Wang.
Haha another story. Yong He's a place in Taiwan and there used to be a family living there who started to sell snacks, pastries and of course soya bean milk. There were just trying to make ends meet by setting up a small shop then and for the convenience of the working class, they operated from early in the morning till the wee hours. They were famous for the quality snacks but eventually closed down. Since then, a smart guy started using the name and reputation to create a franchise all across Taiwan. There are many branches all over Taipei.
As recommended, the fan tuan, dan bing and dou jiang. It's quite dry to eat all of those at one go. But the dan bing's not bad. Oh but i prefer the road side cong bing, like roti prata! haha.
Next up and the final destination, Grand Palace Hotel. It's an iconic hotel in Taipei and i don't think i'll ever be able to afford the stay. It's surrounded by a park and it's on a hill with a great view of Taipei.
Day 10 Sun 25 Sep
AND WE LEFT. At least for my mum and me. Sis stayed one more day for competition. We ridiculously booked cab at 3.30am to Tao Yuan Airport when the flight's at 7 plus. Reached at 4am and sat around for 3hours plus before finally boarding.